Simplified Missional Living

friends-eatingFacebook friend Andy Berry passed along this blog post from Jonathan Dodson which I found to be simple, practical, and useful in understanding the “missional” church concept.  As Alan Hirsch has said, “Many churches have mission statements or talk about the importance of mission, but where truly missional churches differ is in their posture toward the world.”  Here are some suggestions on forming transforming relationships with our neighbors “out there.”


Eat with Non-Christians

We all eat three meals a day. Why not make a habit of sharing one of those meals with a non-Christian or with a family of non-Christians? Go to lunch with a co-worker, not by yourself. Invite the neighbors over for family dinner. If it’s too much work to cook a big dinner, just order pizza and put the focus on conversation. When you go out for a meal, invite a non-Christian friend. Or take your family to family-style restaurants where you can sit at the table with strangers and strike up conversations. Have cookouts and invite Christians and non-Christians. Flee the Christian subculture.

Walk, Don’t Drive

If you live in a walkable area, make a practice of getting out and walking around your neighborhood, apartment complex, or campus. Instead of driving to the mailbox or convenience store, walk to get mail or groceries. Be deliberate in your walk. Say hello to people you don’t know. Strike up conversations. Attract attention by walking the dog, carrying along a 6-pack to share, bringing the kids. Make friends. Get out of your house! Last night I spent an hour outside gardening with my family. We had good conversations with about four of our neighbors. Take interest in your neighbors. Ask questions. Engage. Pray as you go. Save some gas, the planet, and some people.

Be a Regular

Instead of hopping all over the city for gas, groceries, haircuts, eating out, and coffee, go to the same places at the same times. Get to know the staff. Smile. Ask questions. Be a regular. I have friends at coffee shops all over the city. My friends at Starbucks donate a ton of leftover pastries to our church 2-3 times a week. We use them for church gatherings and occasionally give them to the homeless. Build relationships. Be a regular.

Hobby with Non-Christians

Pick a hobby that you can share. Get out and do something you enjoy with others. Try city league sports or local rowing and cycling teams. Share your hobby by teaching lessons, such as sewing, piano, knitting, or tennis lessons. Be prayerful. Be intentional. Be winsome. Have fun. Be yourself.

Talk to Your Co-workers.

How hard is that? Take your breaks with intentionality. Go out with your team or task force after work. Show interest in your co-workers. Pick four and pray for them. Form moms’ groups in your neighborhood and don’t make them exclusively non-Christian. Schedule play dates with the neighbors’ kids. Work on mission.

Volunteer with Non-Profits.

Find a non-profit in your part of the city and take a Saturday a month to serve your city. Bring your neighbors, your friends, or your small group. Spend time with your church serving your city. Once a month. You can do it!

Participate in City Events

Instead of playing XBox, watching TV, or surfing the net, participate in city events. Go to fundraisers, festivals, cleanups, summer shows, and concerts. Participate missionally. Strike up conversation. Study the culture. Reflect on what you see and hear. Pray for the city. Love the city. Participate with the city.

Serve Your Neighbors.

Help a neighbor by weeding, mowing, building a cabinet, or fixing a car. Stop by the neighborhood association or apartment office and ask if there is anything you can do to help improve things. Ask your local Police and Fire Stations if there is anything you can do to help them. Get creative. Just serve!

—Jonathan Dodson

3 thoughts on “Simplified Missional Living

  1. Sounds a lot like just being neighborly and a good citizen, which is fine. It’s certainly better than being self-absorbed and inwardly focused. But what makes this approach to outreach specifically Christian? If we are truly to love our non-Christian neighbors as ourselves, at some point we need to share the Good News of salvation in Christ with them. Otherwise this “missional” approach is “lifestyle evangelism” without the evangelism.

  2. Travis: I think the article in its original context makes it more explicit that we are talking about getting to know our neighbors and co-workers so that we can share the gospel with them. But we’re talking about missional church here, and the assumption from the beginning is that we do these things for a reason: to introduce people to Jesus, to bring heaven to earth.

    I said to my church early on that even more important than “reaching” our neighbors is loving our neighbors, and since you can’t love what you don’t know we should seize every opportunity we can find to get to know and love our neighbors who are not churched and not Christian. The suggestions on this post seem like good ways to do that, but I agree that if we don’t share the good news of Jesus with people then we must not love them very much.

  3. If I remember correctly, I think that it was St. Francis of Assisi who said, “Preach the Gospel! If necessary, use words!” I have to think that Francis of Assisi would probably approve of this approach. I think that our world would be much better if all churches and Christians adopted this sort of lifestyle. I would also add something which Dr. Peter James Flamming suggested to the First Baptist congregation several years ago – pray little, silent prayers for those we meet or are around, ask God to bless them in ways they need to be blessed, heal them in ways they need to be healed, etc. I adopted Dr. Flamming’s suggestion and have often times been amazed at the results!

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