I know a woman who doesn’t want to be part of any Christian denomination; she just wants to be a Christian. She says, “I don’t want to be a Methodist (and you really have to hear her say it to understand just how much she doesn’t want to be one, even though she grew up in that denomination and married a Methodist minister), I want to be a Christian!” She points to that passage in 1 Corinthians 1 where Paul says he has heard about some who are saying, “I belong to Paul,” or “I belong to Apollos,” or “I belong to Cephas,” or “I belong to Christ.” And then Paul says (and you would really have to hear him say it to understand just how much he is horrified by the idea), “Is Christ divided? Was Paul crucified for you? Or were you baptized in the name of Paul?” (1 Cor. 1:12-13).
This is this woman’s argument precisely: that Christ is not divided, that John Wesley (the founder of Methodism) was not crucified for her, nor was she baptized in the name of John Wesley. She was baptized in the name of Jesus Christ. She wants to be a Christian, dadgumit.
And so I told her about Christiantown, an imaginary place where people live together in perfect Christian unity. I said that in Christiantown the Methodist family might live next door to the Lutheran family, but both families live in Christiantown. There are lots of streets, with lots of houses, and lots of happy families living inside. There are Baptists, and Presbyterians, and Catholics, and Pentecostals, and every other kind of Christian you can imagine, but what they have in common is a shared commitment to Jesus Christ as Lord. No matter how much they love their respective families they know who was crucified for them, and in whose name they were baptized. They know what makes them one.
I tell this woman that what she doesn’t want to be in Christiantown is homeless; she doesn’t want to wander the streets forever, looking in through the windows as families are sitting down at the supper table, as they hold hands and say grace with the glow of candlelight on their faces. She needs to become part of a family. She needs to find some Christians with whom she can enjoy that warm, nourishing fellowship, and with whom she can worship and serve the Lord.
So, I’ve encouraged her to visit some churches, and find a good one, and join it knowing that she is not abandoning her commitment to Christ, but only finding a home in Christiantown. I hope she will do it, and I hope that family—whatever its name might be—will take her in.
She needs a home.